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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->From: "Marilee" >"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message >news:20040719133658.24921.00000065@mb-m20.aol.com… >> >From: "Marilee" >> >"Susan " <suf…@aol.comnospam> wrote in message >> >news:20040719123156.14094.00000485@mb-m21.aol.com… >> >> My SIL (younger) used to create imaginary conversations between various >> >Jane >> >> Austen characters when she couldn’t sleep. >> >> Makes me feel like an inadequate insomniac, by comparison. :-/ >> >The psychologist I saw years ago said she used to envision herself a >painter >> >in Paris, painting wonderful works of art on a public street where >> >passers-by would stop and admire her work. >> >I design/envision a completely off-the-wall dwelling, with any number of >> >rooms, nooks, crannied, labor saving devices, etc. >> gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a >little >> girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of >> interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow me >to do >> house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of thing. >Once >> when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a huge >> sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And I >> invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. >Akron, beer, and Poor Thing?
Come again??? Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message
news:20040719143158.16860.00001227@mb-m20.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >From: "Marilee" > >> gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a > >little > >> girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of > >> interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow me > >to do > >> house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of thing. > >Once > >> when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a huge > >> sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And I > >> invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. > >Akron, beer, and Poor Thing? > Come again???
Obscure movie reference, I guess. From the movie "Harvey". Marilee
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->From: "Marilee" >"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message >news:20040719143158.16860.00001227@mb-m20.aol.com… >> >From: "Marilee" >> >> gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a >> >little >> >> girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of >> >> interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow >me >> >to do >> >> house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of >thing. >> >Once >> >> when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a >huge >> >> sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And >I >> >> invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. >> >Akron, beer, and Poor Thing? >> Come again??? >Obscure movie reference, I guess. From the movie "Harvey".
OH ok. I saw that as a child. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message
news:20040719150727.16860.00001228@mb-m20.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >From: "Marilee" > >"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message > >news:20040719143158.16860.00001227@mb-m20.aol.com… > >> >From: "Marilee" > >> >> gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a > >> >little > >> >> girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of > >> >> interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow > >me > >> >to do > >> >> house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of > >thing. > >> >Once > >> >> when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a > >huge > >> >> sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And > >I > >> >> invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. > >> >Akron, beer, and Poor Thing? > >> Come again??? > >Obscure movie reference, I guess. From the movie "Harvey". > OH ok. I saw that as a child.
So did I. But it’s one of my favorites, so I’ve re-watched it many times. Ooooooo. I feel another OT in the offing, perhaps. Marilee
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In article <20040719123156.14094.00000…@mb-m21.aol.com>, suf…@aol.comnospam (Susan ) wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > In article <20040719115525.26080.00000…@mb-m28.aol.com>, > franken…@aol.comatose (Frankenmel) writes: > >A tip I find helpful is to "play" a soothing song in my head. Also I > >sometimes > >imagine sitting by a stream in a forest and imagine birds twittering and the > >stream babbling. > My SIL (younger) used to create imaginary conversations between various Jane > Austen characters when she couldn’t sleep.
Hmmm. Soporific pretension? > Makes me feel like an inadequate insomniac, by comparison. :-/
Now stop that! Priscilla
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In article <2m2bmnFhejp…@uni-berlin.de>, "Marilee" <marilee_…@hotmail.com> wrote: > Or I play "The Minister’s Cat".
Que? Priscilla
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In article <20040719125909.14094.00000…@mb-m21.aol.com>, suf…@aol.comnospam (Susan ) wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > In article <vze23t8n-CFBEFA.12292819072…@news.verizon.net>, Priscilla Ballou > <vze23…@verizon.net> writes: > >On the contrary, I’ve used TV for years to distract my racing brain and > >allow myself to fall asleep. Most modern TVs come with sleep timers, so > >when I feel drowsy I can set it to go off in 10 minutes, then roll over > >and be asleep (most of the time) before it clicks off. > My need to fall asleep with the TV on is a source of marital mayhem, since Tom > prefers to read. If I know I’m trying to fall asleep, I can’t. I have to > pretend I’m trying to watch TV, and just drift off.
I do that with reading books sometimes. I often get drowsy when I read, so I’ll bring a book to bed and try to make myself read for a while. Inevitably I get drowsy, and I let myself fall asleep with the light on and the book dropping from my hands. Later in the night I wake up just enough to put the book aside and turn off the light. Which, along with the Asimov discussion (yes, I know the author I’m about to reference is Arthur C. Clarke) reminds me of two young men in my sister’s high school class. One evening one called the other on the phone and asked him what he was doing. "I’m reading _Against the Fall of Night_," the second replied. "Ah!" returned the first. "But *what* are you reading against the fall of night?" Ba dum DUM! Priscilla
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->From: "Marilee" >"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message >news:20040719150727.16860.00001228@mb-m20.aol.com… >> >From: "Marilee" >> >"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message >> >news:20040719143158.16860.00001227@mb-m20.aol.com… >> >> >From: "Marilee" >> >> >> gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was >a >> >> >little >> >> >> girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds >of >> >> >> interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would >allow >> >me >> >> >to do >> >> >> house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of >> >thing. >> >> >Once >> >> >> when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with >a >> >huge >> >> >> sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. >And >> >I >> >> >> invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. >> >> >Akron, beer, and Poor Thing? >> >> Come again??? >> >Obscure movie reference, I guess. From the movie "Harvey". >> OH ok. I saw that as a child. >So did I. But it’s one of my favorites, so I’ve re-watched it many times. >Ooooooo. I feel another OT in the offing, perhaps.
Go for it. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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"Priscilla Ballou" <vze23…@verizon.net> wrote in message
news:vze23t8n-3F51D8.15503819072004@news.verizon.net… > In article <2m2bmnFhejp…@uni-berlin.de>, > "Marilee" <marilee_…@hotmail.com> wrote: > > Or I play "The Minister’s Cat". > Que? > Priscilla
"The Minister’s Cat is an angry cat with amber aunts. The Minister’s Cat is a big cat with bouncy beanbags. The Minster’s Cat is a calm cat with crazy credentials." etc. Actually, the "with" part is an extra that I added as sometimes my brain falls asleep while trying to think of a likely pair-up. If you’re actually playing a game with little kids, you stop at the initial adjective. Marilee
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Susan wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > In article <vze23t8n-CFBEFA.12292819072…@news.verizon.net>, Priscilla Ballou > <vze23…@verizon.net> writes: >>On the contrary, I’ve used TV for years to distract my racing brain and >>allow myself to fall asleep. Most modern TVs come with sleep timers, so >>when I feel drowsy I can set it to go off in 10 minutes, then roll over >>and be asleep (most of the time) before it clicks off. > My need to fall asleep with the TV on is a source of marital mayhem, since Tom > prefers to read. If I know I’m trying to fall asleep, I can’t. I have to > pretend I’m trying to watch TV, and just drift off.
I snooze in front of the TV in the living room just about every day. It’s my favorite place to take a nap. But at night, in deference to Hubster, I don’t put on the TV in the bedroom, and I like to read anyhow. If I’m really wide awake and can’t fall asleep, I move to the LR and put on the TV. The problem with nighttime TV, of course, is the infomercials. Everywhere! I’m _deathly_ afraid that if I sleep through these, I may wake up with a compelling desire to order an Elvis clock and napkin set.
And if I put on a movie, it’s like a good book – I may get too intrigued to fall asleep. FurPaw
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"FurPaw" <furpawnews…@comcast.net> wrote in message
news:286dnXKOlOqtcGbdRVn-hQ@comcast.com… > For example, I’d add to the reading in bed one: read nothing too > intriguing that "captures" your imagination and interest. That’s one of > my failings – I can read something of mild interest and be sleepy after > a few pages, but if I get caught up in a good novel, next thing I know > it’s 2 AM.
A good, or even decent, novel is and always has been a sure guarantee of insomnia for me. Unless it was assigned reading when I was back in school, of course. Didn’t matter how good it was or that the assignment was due the next day; my body & mind both wanted to go to sleep.
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In article <2m2oobFhuaj…@uni-berlin.de>, – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text - "Marilee" <marilee_…@hotmail.com> wrote: > "Priscilla Ballou" <vze23…@verizon.net> wrote in message > news:vze23t8n-3F51D8.15503819072004@news.verizon.net… > > In article <2m2bmnFhejp…@uni-berlin.de>, > > "Marilee" <marilee_…@hotmail.com> wrote: > > > Or I play "The Minister’s Cat". > > Que? > > Priscilla > "The Minister’s Cat is an angry cat with amber aunts. > The Minister’s Cat is a big cat with bouncy beanbags. > The Minster’s Cat is a calm cat with crazy credentials." > etc. > Actually, the "with" part is an extra that I added as sometimes my brain > falls asleep while trying to think of a likely pair-up. If you’re actually > playing a game with little kids, you stop at the initial adjective.
A-HA! I’m going to have to play that with my niece! Heh heh Priscilla
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"Cathy Friedmann" <c…@adelphia.net> wrote in news:2m2aopFg8f11U1@uni- berlin.de: > I dislike drinking milk (as an adult) & just the *thought* of _warm_ milk > sounds awful to me – gag. Otoh, sometimes tea – even regular tea – has > worked if I’m still awake at 2 or 3 am.
I always thought the idea of warm milk was awful. Then once, many years ago, I was so desperate, I tried it. It snapped me right back to my childhood. See, it turns out that if you add cold milk to hot oatmeal, which I did every morning of my childhood, you get warm milk. Oh, the taste isn’t *quite* the same, but close enough. Especially if you add a little brown sugar to it. :-) Chakolate — When people show you who they are, believe them. –Maya Angelou
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->From: "Marilee" >"Susan " <suf…@aol.comnospam> wrote in message >news:20040719123156.14094.00000485@mb-m21.aol.com… >> My SIL (younger) used to create imaginary conversations between various >Jane >> Austen characters when she couldn’t sleep. >> Makes me feel like an inadequate insomniac, by comparison. :-/ >The psychologist I saw years ago said she used to envision herself a painter >in Paris, painting wonderful works of art on a public street where >passers-by would stop and admire her work. >I design/envision a completely off-the-wall dwelling, with any number of >rooms, nooks, crannied, labor saving devices, etc.
gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a little girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow me to do house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of thing. Once when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a huge sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And I invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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"Chakolate" <chakolateDeathToSpamm…@allvantage.com> wrote in message
news:Xns952B7C3794865chakolatehotmailcom@130.133.1.4… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Cathy Friedmann" <c…@adelphia.net> wrote in news:2m2aopFg8f11U1@uni- > berlin.de: > > I dislike drinking milk (as an adult) & just the *thought* of _warm_ milk > > sounds awful to me – gag. Otoh, sometimes tea – even regular tea – has > > worked if I’m still awake at 2 or 3 am. > I always thought the idea of warm milk was awful. Then once, many years > ago, I was so desperate, I tried it. > It snapped me right back to my childhood. See, it turns out that if you > add cold milk to hot oatmeal, which I did every morning of my childhood, > you get warm milk. Oh, the taste isn’t *quite* the same, but close enough. > Especially if you add a little brown sugar to it. :-) > Chakolate
I loved (cold) milk as a child. My grandmother, whenever she stayed w/ us, used to have warm milk before bedtime, & I thought the idea was awful even back then. I’ve never liked milk on my oatmeal, so that imagery wouldn’t work, either. Cathy
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>From: Priscilla Ballou >I find both diphenhydramine (the sleep-inducing agent in most OTC sleep >aids) and melatonin to be reliable, safe, means of encouraging my brain >to go to sleep. Melatonin works faster than diphenhydramine, but it can >raise my blood glucose. >Priscilla
Neither DH nor I found any help from melatonin. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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"Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message
news:20040719133658.24921.00000065@mb-m20.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >From: "Marilee" > >"Susan " <suf…@aol.comnospam> wrote in message > >news:20040719123156.14094.00000485@mb-m21.aol.com… > >> My SIL (younger) used to create imaginary conversations between various > >Jane > >> Austen characters when she couldn’t sleep. > >> Makes me feel like an inadequate insomniac, by comparison. :-/ > >The psychologist I saw years ago said she used to envision herself a painter > >in Paris, painting wonderful works of art on a public street where > >passers-by would stop and admire her work. > >I design/envision a completely off-the-wall dwelling, with any number of > >rooms, nooks, crannied, labor saving devices, etc. > gosh,I thought I was the only one who enjoyed doing that. When I was a little > girl,I’d spend hours designing cool houses on paper with all kinds of > interesting details. I was hoping to find a software that would allow me to do > house designing on paper…a free program,that is….a game sort of thing. Once > when I was going through some stress,I imagined a sitting room with a huge > sliding glass window that looked out on the most beautiful garden. And I > invited in a grandmotherly sort who would give me soothing words.
Akron, beer, and Poor Thing? Marilee
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In article <20040719112119.26080.00000…@mb-m28.aol.com>, franken…@aol.comatose (Frankenmel) wrote: > Move the television out, so you’re never tempted to watch it in > bed. Like a sunrise, its bright lights tell your brain that it’s time to be > awake.
On the contrary, I’ve used TV for years to distract my racing brain and allow myself to fall asleep. Most modern TVs come with sleep timers, so when I feel drowsy I can set it to go off in 10 minutes, then roll over and be asleep (most of the time) before it clicks off. Priscilla
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In article <20040719112119.26080.00000…@mb-m28.aol.com>, – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text - franken…@aol.comatose (Frankenmel) wrote: > Don’t take an over-the-counter sleep aid, like Excedrin PM or Nytol. These > products can safely promote sleep on the odd night when aches or pains make > it > hard to drop off, but doctors say that after a night or two, as the body > builds > tolerance, they stop working. > Don’t take melatonin, the health-food supplement that some people use to > treat > jet lag. "It’s not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration, so you > don’t > know what you’re getting," says Steven Scharf, M.D., medical director of the > Sleep Disorders Center at the University of Maryland, in College Park. "And > it > has failed to show any long-term benefit."
I find both diphenhydramine (the sleep-inducing agent in most OTC sleep aids) and melatonin to be reliable, safe, means of encouraging my brain to go to sleep. Melatonin works faster than diphenhydramine, but it can raise my blood glucose. Priscilla
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"Susan " <suf…@aol.comnospam> wrote in message
news:20040719123156.14094.00000485@mb-m21.aol.com… > My SIL (younger) used to create imaginary conversations between various Jane > Austen characters when she couldn’t sleep. > Makes me feel like an inadequate insomniac, by comparison. :-/
The psychologist I saw years ago said she used to envision herself a painter in Paris, painting wonderful works of art on a public street where passers-by would stop and admire her work. I design/envision a completely off-the-wall dwelling, with any number of rooms, nooks, crannied, labor saving devices, etc. Or I play "The Minister’s Cat". Marilee
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Remove all office equipment from your bedroom — it should be reserved for relaxation. Move the television out, so you’re never tempted to watch it in bed. Like a sunrise, its bright lights tell your brain that it’s time to be awake. Keep it cool. The temperature of the human body naturally drops a bit a night. Cool air supports that process. Establish a consistent bedtime and, more important, waking time. "It allows your brain to keep your body on a 24-hour schedule," says Robert Ballard, M.D., director of the Sleep Disorders Center at the National Jewish Medical and Research Center, in Denver. Take a warm bath. The water raises your body temperature so that when you get out, it falls — just as it naturally does during the night. Drink warm milk or herbal tea. By calming you, it cues your body that it’s time to sleep. Experiment with meditation or consciously try to relax your muscles. If you like to read before closing your eyes, choose reading material that’s relaxing, not upsetting. Try sex. It might lead to sleep in some cases what not to do: Don’t consume caffeine (including chocolate) within four to six hours of bedtime. Choose warm milk or herbal tea instead of caffeinated beverages. Don’t exercise within two hours of bedtime. It raises the heart rate and body temperature, waking you up. (Exercise earlier in the day can reduce stress.) Don’t take an over-the-counter sleep aid, like Excedrin PM or Nytol. These products can safely promote sleep on the odd night when aches or pains make it hard to drop off, but doctors say that after a night or two, as the body builds tolerance, they stop working. Don’t take melatonin, the health-food supplement that some people use to treat jet lag. "It’s not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration, so you don’t know what you’re getting," says Steven Scharf, M.D., medical director of the Sleep Disorders Center at the University of Maryland, in College Park. "And it has failed to show any long-term benefit." Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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Arrgh…should have said "for" insomniacs. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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Frankenmel wrote: > Arrgh…should have said "for" insomniacs.
But they could also be "from" insomniacs. For example, I’d add to the reading in bed one: read nothing too intriguing that "captures" your imagination and interest. That’s one of my failings – I can read something of mild interest and be sleepy after a few pages, but if I get caught up in a good novel, next thing I know it’s 2 AM. And read with the dimmest light you can tolerate. After lights out, watch the brain-generated light show that seems to dance across your eyelids. It gives me a focus of attention that diverts the hamster cage from starting up, and puts me right to sleep most nights. Don’t drink anything a couple of hours before bedtime if you have acid reflux or heartburn at night. There’s nothing like a good heartburn to keep you awake. FurPaw
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>From: FurPaw >After lights out, watch the brain-generated light show that seems to >dance across your eyelids. It gives me a focus of attention that >diverts the hamster cage from starting up, and puts me right to sleep >most nights.
I don’t see the light show behind my eyelids. At least I don’t think I do. A tip I find helpful is to "play" a soothing song in my head. Also I sometimes imagine sitting by a stream in a forest and imagine birds twittering and the stream babbling. Sharon……..Don’t think of it as getting hot flashes. Think of it as your inner child playing with matches.
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I’ve tried most of these. Personal notes on a few… "Frankenmel" <franken…@aol.comatose> wrote in message
news:20040719112119.26080.00000121@mb-m28.aol.com… > Remove all office equipment from your bedroom — it should be reserved for > relaxation. Move the television out, so you’re never tempted to watch it in > bed. Like a sunrise, its bright lights tell your brain that it’s time to be > awake. > Keep it cool. The temperature of the human body naturally drops a bit a night. > Cool air supports that process.
Ever since peri, I’ve *needed* it to be definitely cool in there. I even have the heating vent in my bedroom shut all winter. Any heat there is, it seeps in from the upstairs hallway. > Establish a consistent bedtime and, more important, waking time. "It allows > your brain to keep your body on a 24-hour schedule," says Robert Ballard, M.D., > director of the Sleep Disorders Center at the National Jewish Medical and > Research Center, in Denver.
> Take a warm bath. The water raises your body temperature so that when you get > out, it falls — just as it naturally does during the night.
I’ve tried the warm bath several times; weeks, months, & years apart from the tries. Has never worked. I think it makes me too warm – or something… (I normally take a shower in the morning, not at night.) > Drink warm milk or herbal tea. By calming you, it cues your body that it’s time > to sleep.
I dislike drinking milk (as an adult) & just the *thought* of _warm_ milk sounds awful to me – gag. Otoh, sometimes tea – even regular tea – has worked if I’m still awake at 2 or 3 am. > Experiment with meditation or consciously try to relax your muscles. > If you like to read before closing your eyes, choose reading material that’s > relaxing, not upsetting.
I read every night – it’s very relaxing to me, & have found that I can read only fiction before falling asleep. If I read any sort of nonfiction – even pleasant stuff like a travel guide, it keeps my mind way too alert & I’ll just keep reading & reading, wide awake & thinking about what I’m reading. Cathy
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